You nailed it Jeremy, as always.
When we left the JWs, I went to HTP in London with Rev. Nicky Gumbal, the guy behind the Alpha Course. It was completely enlightening, inspiring and uplifting and confirmed many things that were so obviously wrong with the WTS that deep down I had been feeling for many years. Amazing music, interesting sermons, youth programs, an incredible Christian bookshop and refreshments after including the most fabulous home made cakes after! A strong community that was full of love and had a lot of fun! I almost wish I still believed . . .
The WTS is just a tired, sad organistion that keeps pushing that self destruct button having canned the only things that made it fun, interesting and fostered community spirit: original talks (not strictly tied to outlines), food at assemblies and the book study to name just a few.